Nothing all those years.

Lynette wasn’t typical pretty. And that was okay because she wasn’t that terrible at math and had a way of smearing on a thin coat of pearlescent mango lip gloss that at least made her look interesting. She bit at the edge of one of those mango-lined lips as Armand listed out her “wrongs.”

She only half listened until she was forced to whole listen.

“They just think you’re not the right fit anymore, Lynn.” That was bad, so bad he couldn’t say her entire name. Lynette looked up. Armand was the producer for Singing in Seattle, a small, daytime TV show that had gotten its start on public access television. They were now on one of the main channels and had a pretty decent-sized audience on YouTube, but Lynette had only checked out their page once. After seeing a comment calling her a frizzy-haired eyesore, she decided the Internet just wasn’t the right place for her. But then she had logged into her Facebook account and had gotten lost in a sea of five-ingredient casserole recipes, quickly recanting the sentiment.

“Lynn?” Armand had kind eyes. She had liked him in the beginning, in the late nineties when the world wasn’t a toilet someone had lit on fire. They went dancing once in a club that made her feel uncomfortable for wearing a t-shirt from the Gap and then she fell asleep on his couch and woke with an itchy afghan on her bare arms. “My abuelita’s,” he had said, and Lynette stupidly thought it was the brand name.

All those years. They had seen so many hurtful things. The twin towers and murdered children and hurricanes that washed bodies away like ants. And every morning Lynn smiled into the camera. “Sing it, Seattle!” she had said and moved her face around ever so slightly so nobody would notice how wet her eyes were.

She had never felt like singing. Not now and not then.

”Yeah, yeah I figured.” And it was the truth. She knew the execs talked under their whiskey-breath, patting themselves on their backs for turning a nothing show into a something show. But it had been the nothing all those years that had kept Lynette alive. It was the nothing of knowing Armand just saw her as a friend. It was the nothing of knowing her mother had cancer and then had the audacity to die, but at least she had a place to come to. She could put on her gloss and slap at the frizz on the top her head and talk to the nothing of all the nobodies that used to hardly ever watch their show. But then things had changed. The world had changed. And Lynette was still just Lynette.

They sat in the awkward until Lynette finally forced her legs to move. She picked up her faux leather briefcase that had always made her feel like a news anchor. In reality, it was just an over-sized tote for Tic Tacs and the fisted tissues that floated free on the inside. Something in her brain reminded her to shake Armand’s hand. It was brown and warm and she took a mental picture of his holding hers.

“I’ll keep in touch. You know that, Lynette,” he said, and she stopped clicking her mental camera when his lie hit hard.

“Of course,” she said and headed out into the lobby. It was there she saw the woman she was supposed to be. Mid-twenties to Lynette’s forty-seven. Crop top and jeans to an interview while Lynette dressed like her own mother if the woman had still been alive. She tried to ignore the itch of polyester, her feet sweating in her pumps as she looked at youth and the smirky mouth that belonged to it. She wanted to think in her head, Just wait. One day you’ll be just like me. But Lynette knew differently. She knew the heart inside her chest just wasn’t like the others. And that even if this beautiful girl one day became a not so beautiful old woman, she’d place two fingers on her breast bone and hear an old, familiar beat.

But Lynette? No, not her. Hers always felt like stone breaking, the core soft like skin.

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Feeding the hole in your heart.

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The art of simplifying starts on the inside out.

There’s a lot of layers of this going on in my own life. I’ve started to shear back even the amount of supplements I take.

Less is more and more is a heart attack.

Have you ever thought about our daily consumption? Christ gives us our daily bread and yet, there’s so much on the daily for us to consume through our eyes, ears, and mouths. Houses are cluttered and messy. The kids are watching YouTube videos they shouldn’t. Obesity is at an all time high.

And yet we’re an evolved species, no? I’m sorry I wasn’t laughing. Okay, I’m sorry again because I totally was.

We are the same people we were when Adam and Eve walked this earth, heads held high to the heavens. We’re bent on the same thing: our personal gain. The only problem is that we’re a flawed species, ruinous and caustic from the taste of sin. So our issue isn’t owning five toasters still in their boxes.

Our issue is our hearts.

My newsletter readers know I’m taking a novel-writing break and writing a non-fiction book about this very thing. Home (and life) organization can’t happen (or at least can’t be sustained) without first searching ourselves and knowing where we stand with God.

From that, all other things flow.

Are you spending time with God? Is it in the form of a rote prayer you’ve said for ages, yet you feel just as stale as the first time you muttered it? Is this time the thirty seconds before you scroll through your Instagram feed?

We’re our own worst enemies, you guys. I can’t even claim that role for Satan since we all know what will happen to him in the end. But us? We have the power through Christ to claim what God has promised to us, if only we listen. But how can we listen if we won’t even sit with Him for a moment?

Look around you. What’s cluttering your head and heart right now? I can guarantee no matter what the problem is, the solution always comes back to whether or not you’re standing beneath God’s wing for protection. Joy isn’t happiness. Joy is the solace of knowing you are God’s even when it’s storming around you. If you don’t know that, it’s no wonder there’s a million dirty socks on your couch right now.

The good news? You already know the way to reverse the course.

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